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AuroranWolf: Need opinions from people with experience..

Posted: Sep 20th 2009
Mood: Depressed

So, I have a boy friend who doesn't go to my school. At first, I thought I could work out being in a distance relationship because he lives in my best friends neighborhood so I can see him whenever we all get together. Not to mention he will get his driver's license in a few months. But what I didn't realize is his parents are absolute freaks! They won't let him leave the house unless he finishes all his homework way early and if he is making straight A's. And even then, they might not let him come see me just because 'they don't want him to.'
So everytime we try to arrange a date or something, it gets canceled because his parents won't let him go. :(
This distance relationship isn't exactly working out too well. I only get to see him at big get togethers with friends, which means no alone time... I haven't seen him in two weeks now.. and can't talk to him because his parents took up his phone for no reason. ><
Another problem is, there is this guy I met in marching band. He plays clarinet like I do and we sit next to each other in class. He's become a really close friend of mine and I can tell he likes me. And I'm developing a thing for him too... So here is my problem. My boyfriend and I don't get to see each other much, and I have this new guy who is moving in on my life. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I can't help my feelings for this new guy.. :(
Anyone have some experience in situations like this that could help me out?

Comments

Scary Monkey Dragon Says:

Break up with him. It's pointless to pursue a relationship like that.

Fox Hound p99 Says:

i know all about what your dealing with this is what happening right now to me realy. but its all based on how long you want to wait and how much you like ether guy so i would sit and think can i wait 3-4 more years (depending on how old he is realy) and how you feel towards the other guy don't go with the easier one

RipfangDragon Says:

I'm going to be honest: It doesn't sound much like a relationship right now. You're both making an effort, but to no avail. You never see each other, never talk to each other. Two weeks now? That's not a relationship. And no one is really to blame; that's just how it is. What you could do with that is really limitless. You can always try to work through it and see what happens, or you can break it off for many reasons. That is entirely up to you and how you feel.

My advice: If you're suffering from so much confusion, don't date either boy. Confusion about emotions [for other people] while you're in a relationship with someone can only lead to trouble. Take a few days, weeks, even months or years off to ponder it. You're still really young, and you have so much time to find that special someone. Don't fret about it so much (even though that's so much easier said than done, regardless of age).

Good luck, sweetie, and you can always PM me if you need to dump

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