- Posted
- Feb 17th 2007
- Mood
- Bitter
- Music
- Vindicated by Dashboard Confessional
There are guys, you know, who are sweet, and caring, and thoughtful.
The ones who remember the anniversaries, and the birthdays.
Who buy you flowers, just because.
Who spend every waking moment thinking about you, and every night they dream of you.
They'll give you their love unconditionally, unquestioningly.
They'll forgive you every trespass.
They'll devote their whole lives to you, every move they make for you.
They want a good paying job, not so they can impress you, but so they can give you all the things they think you deserve, which is everything in the world and beyond.
They take their time and make love to you, they don't just fuck you and say goodbye. They want nothing more than to know they've pleased you.
So why is it that the nice guys get used? Treated like crap? Thrown in the gutter? Why is it the nice guys always get their heart broken? Are there no nice girls anymore? No girls who want to be treated like they're princesses, no girls who want guys who would do ANYTHING to make them happy?
A friend of mine, whose name I won't mention, is a nice guy. His girl has cheated on him twice, and yet he has taken her back both times, no questions asked. He asked her to marry him a few months back.
I consider myself a nice guy. Unfortunately, I've given up on love. My heart, and my trust has broken one too many times, and I honestly don't think I could do it again, and don't plan on it. As my friends know, I don't really plan to even live that much longer.
So girls, ask yourself this, is it really worth it? The bad boys, that is. I see girls crying all the time, wanting nice guys to treat them good, not just fuck and run, yet most of my nice guy friends are single, and have been for quite some time. If you found a nice guy, would you treat him just as nicely? Would you devote yourself to him, and love him as he loves you?
I hope so, because even nice guys get bitter and cold.
We have hearts that can be broken.
And eventually, we won't be able to put the pieces back together.
If you have a nice guy, thank God for him, because we're a disappearing breed, and never take him for granted.
Sincerely,
S.M.G. - A Nice Guy
kestral Says:
oi msn died on me D_D.... sorry for not replyin to ya!
qoucher Says:
Being a nice guy is bull shit, it's useless, it doesn't work, it fails, miserably. Girls want someone who's going to take power, someone who can handle being in control, they want a guy who's determined, motivated, concentrated, a guy who has passion. Are all girls like this? most of em are. If you ask them this, they most likely won't say so, but it's what a lot of women crave, believe it or not.
And chivalry is nearly useless, nearly every female has become her own person, and doesn't care for guys to wait on them.
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thehavocrebellion Says:
Well THIS girl certainly wants a nice guy. A lot of girls do. The only reason girls date ass holes willingly these days is because society has planted this image in their heads. The media tells us that the only worthwhile, interesting men are super models. It's unrealistic and total crap. Prince Charming? He doesn't exist. Girls SHOULD be looking for a man who will treat them well, but for the sake of having the dreamy, blue-eyed stud to show off to their MySpace addicted friends, throw their desires away and succumb to a sex-driven, meaningless relationship.
I have a nice guy. There are still a lot of women who want nice guys. Don't give up and don't change the way you are. The "bad boys" may be getting a lot of ass, but they won't be the ones with the good wives...they won't live out their lives with their soul mate. In the end, the good guys win. The problem is that the nice guys are more mature than the brainless girls who want the "bad boys," and it takes these girls time to catch up. Unfortunately, by the time they do, they're pregnant and already have the reputation for being whores (even if they're not) because bad boys always kiss and tell.
GOD BLESS THE FREAKS, ODDBALLS, AND THE NICE GUYS OF THE WORLD!
HUZAH!