- Posted
- Dec 9th 2005
- Mood
- Confused
- Music
- Linkin Park-My Decmber
I'm really lost and confused within myself right now. Every part of me seems to be in conflict with one another. My heart is terrified at this moment and my mind is forever dwelling on past experiences. But my soul, my soul is telling me that it's alright for me to take the chance on caring for someone again. I'm not sure which one to listen to, they all seem to make a good point to me. This internal conflict is causing me to become depressed about being involved with someone again. But I know this person is different, he just has to be. He's nothing like the other guys i've ever dated and I think thats whats scaring me; the change. I'm just lost and confused, I've turned to god for his guidance but I'm also turning to you all, who I also respect and listen to for your advice and guidance on what's going on within me at this moment. So, is it ok for me to be scared or should I just tell the fear to go away and leave me to my happiness?
crystaltsubasa Says:
U can't be afraid to try...it is frightning to start a new relationship and even more when that person seems like the right person. U should try and let go of the fear of getting hurt...think about it this way u might miss out on something that can be really great...best of luck
Big Sephy Says:
it's ok to be scared... but it isn't worth it... I'm scared every day... of losing the one girl I see myself being with forever... and it's too much stress... I don't support homosexuality... but I support your right to have that choice(yea... um... just cause i like yaoi)... so... well... it really just isn't worth being scared... not even a little... it just causes pain that you don't need... it's like cutting yourself... it's the exact same thing... needless pain... needless suffering... I don't know what religion you are... but you menchioning God makes me think Christian. Truthfully... you should just take a chance... you have friends and you have God to pick you back up... if you don't find that one person this time, then hell, there's always next time. So take a chance... there's always another one.
Kaminary Says:
I only can tell you that I have such a person too. And I felt the same some months ago...It was a very difficult time for me...
Um.. I can advise you to listen this^^
Just listen it=)
http://kamisan.newmail.ru/07-Castlevania.MP3
You can't be scared all the time. You have to take moment and think about what a relation really means to you. It should mean being with someone who makes you happy in many ways, without having to doing something. You've spoke about how your new boyfriend treats you so much better than your previous. It just takes a little bit of time to get it into your routine. Keeo the relation you have with him. It will probably grow greatly in time.
Virangelus Says:
If I only listened to the side that tells me not to trust, to only isolate and protect myself, I wouldn't be you or Michelle's friend right now. I don't know if that statemnts worthy anything to ya because I know that I'm not the best person and I'm sure I still annoy the crap out of you guys, but you don't have to break open the dam right away. Let a little water in at first kays? Then the more you'll talk, the more the water will pass through of its own will. Good luck with what you do
RaeInverse Says:
listen to yur soul,find yur inner light and go from there
Psyconorikan Says:
Don't be scared you baaaaaaaka anfuni! You've waited for this for how long? So just do it and see what happens!!!!!
AlekHiwatari Says:
all I can say is, if you feel uncomfterble just give it time, I mean, who want's to rush somethign if they aren't sure about it ne? oO and, don't be depressed, it get's tiering and only hurts your self. Don't get sad! get glad! (lame) be happy as much as you can, and don't let the same gender or opposite control you! garrh!
beethovenbd Says:
Fear is always understandable..and although I do not know your past, doubts are never without reason either...but let your heart speak in any case...listen to your intuition...it's more often then not right