The Dark Side of Father's Day

by Prismind

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The Dark Side of Father's Day

Father's day
A day in which we
take our time to appricate
the fathers in our lives

father and son go on fishing trips
daughters give their dads hugs and cards
Wives make breakfast in bed
for the ones they vow their lives too.

but what of those without
this critical person in their life
what are they to do?
what are they to feel?

Father's day
for those who are lonely
this day brings back memories
of old and pains of the present

What can you say
to someone who had no father
or lose him to Drugs, Alcohol
or the long grip of the Grim Reaper

There is nothing
That's the way life is played
For words will bring forth memories
and Memories can bring us pain

Who can say that they like pain
None will stand up and proclaim it
that is because we can only
handle so much pain in our lives

To remember is sign of a bond and
bonds are those of love and affection
that work like a two way street
and only work right in that sense

For if a person was to express love and emotion
to a being that can never appricate it back
what is to happen to that person, you ask?
He will suffer under his own instability.

But what of the old saying,
"It's better love and lost than to never love at all"
That saying is a complete lie
to confuse us into being that loss is a plus

I ask you all this, would you feel pain
if someone you didn't know or loved die
You cannot say yes, for people die every
day, I can't see you mourning at this very second

"So, we should not form bonds?
Is that what you mean to tell us?"
No, for that is the mindset of a man
who is greedy for power.

Look deep inside and find the Bond of that man
For when you cry, your heart will truly connect you to him
for when you smile, you express how strong that bond is,
For the heart is the thread that binds us, beyond life and death

Endure the pain of your heart
for it is a test that will make you stronger
Do it as offer as you can
because suffering is the same is you know it will end

So,Remember those who have passed on father's day
For there is a fate worse than Death, and that is
To be forgotten, and that would mean you never existed
I place the pain on no man
> 'Jet Set Id' by Prismind

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Jun 18th 2006
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Yes. I have found a dark side to this American holiday.

Now i understand why people don't like this holiday. To those who are alone, it's nothing to be happy about.

Edit: Thanks for the front page. I should clarify that this poem is not about my father but it fueled by the loss of a father Figure months ago and the fact that my friend and I must go through this day without him. The emotions are mine and how I feel now about this day.I think he feel the same way right now.

Comments

Sakura Says:

i can relate to this too much than I'd like to. T_T i wont go into a sob story, but. fathers day is one 'holidy' i never had the opportunity to celebrate. ;; fav for you. :0

elfengurl Says:

Father's day...sucks *turns emo*

elfengurl Says:

Btw great poem.

girfan12 Says:

I think this can express how people who can relate to this poem very well.

CapnPyro Says:

I can relate..
But!
I care too little about these things to finish reading! xDDD
That.. And I'm tired and dont wanna read.

Saying up late trying to hack Maplestory is a pain.

LadyCimmerian Says:

Good poem... there are a couple of typos but it gets the message across... oh.... now I'm sad...

Snakefire Says:

Good point there, *nod, nod*.

Should mention where you got the pic from though, to avoid the crazy otaku x.X

Javet Says:

Congrats on fp... and gosh, you made me cry. I didn't even realize it was father's day until now.

Cat Megex Says:

...

I still have my father, but this is just really sad...

Ai Kazi Says:

T_T DX geh this made me cry DX;; im so sorry for your loss T_T